Saturday, May 23, 2009
How to refuse sex on a date? Tips to keep him at bay.
Men think about it all the time and generally love to sleep with every beautiful girl they meet. So when you’re out on a date, you must expect some moves towards this. If you’re very early in a dating relationship, I strongly suggest that you avoid meeting at his home or at a friend’s place. Remember, guys lose interest in women who are easy to get. Ward off the question about having fun by pretending you didn’t hear it. If he brings it up again, just tell him it’s too early to even think about it. Don’t make it easy for him to hold your hands, hug or kiss. This will clearly tell him that sex is certainly not to be pursued with you on this date.
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The problem is that too many men nowadays are controlled by the desire to have easy sex. Historically, men were thought to be the unaffectionate gender while women were the ones who wanted sex. My, how times have changed. As a man, I can honestly say that I'm not driven by sex, but I also hate the head games associated with dating where a man has to jump through hoops to prove he's worthy. I like to be friends for a few weeks or even a couple months before even thinking of dating. And the dates should be smallscale. Very smallscale early on. Here's some things about me.
ReplyDelete1. On the first, second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eighth, ninth, tenth, or so on date - I will show no affection. The most that I might do is pay a compliment here and there, mostly the discussions are about whatever topic comes up.
2. I wait months before doing anything, yes, months, that includes kissing, hugging, holding hands, showing any affection. Anything I deem to be "sexual" waits even longer than that, MUCH longer.
3. You might be thinking from this that I'm asexual or something or that I'm an effeminate man, quite the opposite, I'm not asexual and I'm actually a throwback to the 17the century male. Believe me, I am physically strong as well. I work out with a rock that weighs about 100 KG in my back yard, for example.
4. I am turned off by any woman who shows sexual interest earlier than I deem is "okay", although I know that in most cases, she'd be the first one to get randy with me.
5. Surprisingly, I have dated women before and I am not a virgin, although that was with a girl I was with for almost six years and had every intention of marrying, so I'm not saying this as a bitter man or a naive little kid. But I'm not interested in jumping right into dating. And blind dates? Never in a trillion years.