Saturday, May 16, 2009
This is a painful thing to undergo, but since you both have decided that you’re likely to be better separated, accept the fact deep down your heart. Be very clear about what you want to do with the kids, if you have any. Chalk out a broad plan for the next 12 months. Take up a new activity – sport or a club membership to occupy your free time. Don’t resist the thoughts of “are you doing the right thing” and the like. Seek family help in bailing you out of this personal crisis. Don’t pick up fights in the meantime. Forgive and move on.